[ { "chunk": 148, "story": 17, "summary": "Newspapers say rivals have caught the father short on lard; he tells the son not to mind, since he never sells what he cannot lay hands on and is ready to fight.", "predicament": "Rumours are spreading that rivals have caught someone overextended in the market and mean to break them.", "advice": [ { "move": "never commit to deliver what you cannot lay hands on", "outcome": "rivals who try to squeeze you find you ready for them", "quote": "I never sell goods without knowing where I can find them when I want them", "stance": "do" } ] }, { "chunk": 149, "story": 17, "summary": "Ignore both abuse and flattery, and please your own side since you cannot please both; a lady once asked to borrow a vacant lot of the father's for a day nursery, and he agreed.", "predicament": "Someone is praised by one side and reviled by the other for the same act, and must decide whom to heed.", "advice": [ { "move": "ignore both abuse and flattery", "outcome": "the one cannot harm you and the other cannot help you", "quote": "There are two things you never want to pay any attention to--abuse and flattery. The first can't harm you and the second can't help you.", "stance": "do" }, { "move": "please your own side rather than trying to please both", "outcome": "you cannot please both anyway", "quote": "As long as you can't please both sides in this world, there's nothing like pleasing your own side.", "stance": "do" } ] }, { "chunk": 150, "story": 17, "summary": "The lady returns for a building, then cows, then paint, each time making him feel mean for not offering; he paints an advertisement for the firm on the long shed wall.", "predicament": "Someone who granted a small favour to a good cause finds the requests growing every time they give in.", "advice": [] }, { "chunk": 151, "story": 17, "summary": "She tells the town he gave a cheap shed and took a costly advertisement, and shames him into paying; he sells the lot and quits, noting that worry is the one thing he put into business that never paid.", "predicament": "Someone who turned a charity to their own advantage is shamed into paying for it and gets out altogether.", "advice": [ { "move": "put worry into your business", "outcome": "it is the one thing that never pays back", "quote": "the only thing I've ever put into it which didn't draw dividends in fun or dollars was worry", "stance": "avoid" } ] }, { "chunk": 152, "story": 17, "summary": "Worry always picks the wrong thing: the refinery burns while you fret over the safe, and your health breaks while you fear for the business; a busy man leaves worrying to others.", "predicament": "Someone lies awake over what might go wrong, while the real trouble comes from where they never looked.", "advice": [ { "move": "worry over what might go wrong", "outcome": "the trouble comes from elsewhere, and worry itself ruins your health", "quote": "you worry because you're afraid your business is going to smash, and your health busts up instead", "stance": "avoid" } ] }, { "chunk": 153, "story": 17, "summary": "A widow with fourteen children let them roam all day; when her youngest's clothes were found by the swimming hole, she asked to see the body before any funeral.", "predicament": "Someone brought news of a disaster declines to grieve or spend anything until they see proof of it.", "advice": [] }, { "chunk": 154, "story": 17, "summary": "The town stops work to praise the drowned boy and drag the river; after a week the widow pays a fortune-teller to reach him, who fails.", "predicament": "While everyone around makes a great show of grief and alarm, one person asks only for results.", "advice": [] }, { "chunk": 155, "story": 17, "summary": "She pays more each day, and the fortune-teller raises the dead father and famous ghosts, but never the boy.", "predicament": "Someone paying for news finds the answers costing more each time without producing anything they asked for.", "advice": [] }, { "chunk": 156, "story": 17, "summary": "She concludes the boy is not dead, chases off the mourners, finds him hiding next morning and thrashes him; the men who had praised him cuff him for making fools of them.", "predicament": "Someone who let everyone mourn them as lost turns up unharmed, and those who praised them feel made fools of.", "advice": [] }, { "chunk": 157, "story": 17, "summary": "The boy had run off to fight Indians and come back hungry; the time to worry is when a thing is over, and the way is to leave it to the neighbours.", "predicament": "Someone facing an uncertain outcome must decide whether to worry about it now or wait until they know.", "advice": [ { "move": "hold off worrying until the outcome is known, and leave the fretting to others", "outcome": "the feared loss may never have happened", "quote": "the time to do your worrying is when a thing is all over, and that the way to do it is to leave it to the neighbors", "stance": "do" } ] } ]